You may have heard a lot about tongue tie. Your neighbour’s baby had one, your sister’s baby had one, the reflux support group suggests investigating whether your baby has one. Surely you wonder what is this thing and surely not every baby is tongue tied?
Alternatively you may have heard nothing about tongue tie, you’ve had all sorts of problems with breastfeeding, maybe you still do, maybe you gave up but even bottle feeding is a challenge and you can’t figure out why. Somehow you’ve landed here.
This is a brief but definitive guide to tongue tie, what is it, how can you find out if your baby has one, is it is a problem if they have and what should you do about it anyway?
What is tongue tie?
We all have a layer of tissue along the bottom of our mouth that connects to our tongue. When we raise our tongue this looks like a line connecting the tongue to the floor of the mouth. We call this ‘the lingual frenulum’
This lingual frenulum is actually a midline fold of the tissue on the floor of our mouth. It varies as to where this fold connects to the tongue, to the roof of the mouth and as to how elastic and long it is. When the lingual frenulum is particularly short or inelastic and restricts the baby from making typical movements with its tongue; movements which are needed to feed we describe this as a tongue tie.
How can I find out if my baby has a tongue tie?
Sometimes you will find someone glances in your baby’s mouth and definitively states ‘he has/doesn’t have a tongue tie’ but it’s not always that easy. Some babies will have a frenulum that is very visible because it is attached to the front of their tongue but it may be long, elastic and not inhibiting the baby’s ability to feed in anyway. Other babies will have a frenulum that is attached further back on the tongue and is therefore less visible at a glance but it is very short and inelastic and maybe attached to the back of the gum ridge, this baby is likely to be restricted in the movements his tongue can make and therefore feeding is often a problem.
We have a variety of tools to use to assess tongue ties which give us a score and an indication of how much the frenulum is restricted and how much this restriction is impacting on the baby. Some experienced practitioners feel they don’t need to use a tool but either way to check for a tongue tie any practitioner is likely to take a careful history from you and then want to watch your baby in order to observe the movements she makes with her tongue and to look in her mouth to see the frenulum, where it is attached to the tongue and gum and to feel how she’s sucks and how elastic her frenulum is. They should be able to describe to you how your baby’s individual abilities to move her tongue are impacting on feeding.
For example
Many babies with tongue tie find it hard to stick out their tongues beyond their lip, this can make it harder to scoop up the breast and you will see your baby trying to attach and maybe needing many tries to do so or not succeeding at all
Many babies will struggle to cup the breast or bottle with their tongue as they cannot maintain that tongue position, you might see them slide off the breast or down towards your nipple or dribble milk out on bottle or breast because they cannot maintain a seal. Sometimes they will struggle with a dummy and are unable to keep it in. You might hear clicking sounds as the baby drops off the breast.
If the practitioner uses a tool, there will usually be a scoring system which can tell you how likely treatment is to help.
What is the problem with tongue tie?
Typically in a baby with tongue tie, you get a range of feeding problems
- The baby may not attach to the breast at all or they may try multiple times to attach before they manage to do so.
- The baby may attach to the breast and then fall off or slide off leading to a much smaller latch.
- The mother may get sore or cracked nipples because the baby is unable to make the normal movements of the tongue to transfer milk or because the baby cannot get or maintain a good attachment to the breast.
- The baby may feed a lot (often described by mothers as constantly) because they aren’t able to get the milk out efficiently.
- The baby may act hungry and unsettled because they are struggling to get enough milk.
- The baby may fall asleep on the breast because they can’t get the milk out effectively.
- The baby may lose a lot of weight initially or gain weight more slowly than expected.
- The baby may dribble milk out on breast or bottle.
- The baby may have long slow bottle feeds and struggle to get milk out fast enough.
- The baby may struggle with milk flow and choke and splutter on the breast or bottle.
- Some people feel the baby is more likely to struggle with wind and colic because they can’t maintain a good seal on breast or bottle but we don’t have good evidence for this.
What about later problems I hear tongue tie causes speech issues?
While tongue tie is known to contribute to speech and dental issues occasionally, this is relatively rare. Because it is so rare, we don’t tend to treat tongue ties in babies in order to prevent later issues. If a child feeds well but later has speech or dental issues because of a tongue tie then it is possible to divide them even into adulthood although this may require a general anaesthetic.
So how many babies have tongue tie?
Around 10% of babies have a frenulum that is causing sufficient restriction to be described as a tongue tie.
Wow that’s a lot? Do they all need something done about it?
No, if a baby is feeding well, gaining weight and there are no concerns then we don’t treat tongue tie. If there are concerns around feeding then assessment is merited and treatment can be discussed after that assessment. We only have strong evidence for treating babies who have breastfeeding issues however as many bottle feeding parents report improvement after tongue tie treatment, many clinics including ours will also treat bottle fed infants and babies who are having issues transitioning onto solid foods.
Treatment? What is the treatment?
The normal treatment for tongue tie is to divide (cut) the frenulum so the tongue is freer to move. The baby is wrapped tightly and held still, the practitioner opens their mouth and cuts the frenulum most often with a small pair of sterile scissors in a good light. Occasionally if the frenulum is particularly short or tight this may take two cuts, then the baby is handed to you for a feed.
Is it painful or dangerous?
Like all procedures it carries some small risks which your practitioner will discuss with you. It doesn’t seem to be very painful for most babies, the vast majority settle immediately. Occasionally an older baby may need paracetamol or similar if they are very unsettled after the procedure.
Are there any alternatives to cutting the frenulum?
Maybe. Often support with feeding can help manage the restriction in the frenulum without the need for division. A lactation consultant can help with positions that will manage the particular issues you may be having with breastfeeding. Side lying and laid back positions are helpful or the koala hold where the baby sits upright while feeding. For some babies aids like nipple shields can be helpful. As babies get bigger and more capable, feeding tends to improve. Bottle fed babies often manage flow better as they get older.
Some people have suggested ‘bodywork’ or cranial osteopathy may be helpful. Some tongue tie practitioners specialise in doing this before considering division and many others will suggest a referral either before or after division if it seems likely to be helpful. The theory is that stretches/massage etc may loosen the tissue at the bottom of the mouth making the frenulum more elastic and the tongue more able to move freely. We don’t as yet have good evidence for this approach but many parents have found it helpful and it may be something you want to consider.
So can I book an appointment?
You absolutely can. The link to book an appointment with us is here? If you don’t live in our area, there’s a list of practitioners available here on the Association of Tongue Tie Practitioners website.